A set back…and a load of stress. There is a 5″ opening (NOT real deep) at surgical site. This should NOT have happened. I’ve no clue what’s going on but do have appt w/surgeon in the morning. I’m just glad it didn’t open up any farther. Am I a bit frightened? Yep.

I’ll be at the University of Mi Med Hospital on Tues. I won’t know if I’ll need to stay until some tests are completed. This was not something I was expecting. I sincerely thank all you ladies for the well wishes and above all prayer support. I’m trusting things will turn out well, yet, right now, with pain not controlled and knowing there are complications…it’s a bit scary. However, I’ve been through much (as so many of you have). Your support is an enormous encouragement and sorely needed. :heart::heart::heart:

Complications regarding screws that were recently added to my arm. It seems to have knocked the wind out of me.

I found out I did NOT need another rod put in my arm. However, what was needed were a few more screws and two connecting wires. I was tempted to become discouraged, yet, it was better than having an additional long rod put in. The surgeon went through the original incision. It’s down the backside of my left arm…from near wrist to a few inches below my shoulder. Needless to say, an additional surgery makes the recovery time longer. Yet, I’m believing for a rapid recovery in spite of what was said. I’ll do whatever it takes & all my Dr tells me to do. It’ll be a while before any physical therapy can begin. It’s like taking 3 steps forward and 2 steps back. Yet, with this equation, I’m still 1 foot ahead! This was the first time I’ve been able to give you an update. Again, my gratitude toward all that have asked and sent their best wishes and prayers…a HUGE encouragement. THANK YOU! :heart::heart:

Received a tremendous blessing late morning today. My friend (a hair stylist) came over to wash, cut & style my hair. So many things we may be tempted to take for granted. (I’ve learned that this is unwise). None of know what tomorrow holds (or the next hour). Many times we may walk past, without notice, a spectacular sight, event or the opportunity to speak kindly to another. Ever stop & think a kind word spoken with sincerity to another may be the only kind word that person will receive that day…or perhaps in a very long time? Opportunities are all around us to “pay it forward”. Is it ever too late to do the right thing? Many times the changes we seek can (and often do) begin with us. Before I ever left the USA, I used to say to myself “I’m just one person, what can I accomplish?!” This was a VERY frustrating time for me. Decades ago, I learned that “every life touches every other life”. Truly, it’s my hearts desire that each of you REALLY understand your importance, value and the ‘weight’ of your kind words to others (as well as the words you speak to youself) make toward a positive lasting influence. There really is no big “I” nor little “you”. 

You ladies have taken the time to teach me much, answer questions, replied to posts and continue to show genuine compassion & kindness. THAT’S the best “medicine” of all. You’ve all infused such value & caring into me… what words would ever be able to adequately express the fullness of one’s heart? :heart::womanhappy::heart:

Anytime improvements are offered, I’m for it! I will say there’s plenty I don’t quite understand. So, I’ll watch, listen, ask questions and learn. One thing I learned quickly is that you ladies are always ready to offer help. I’m very grateful. :womanhappy::heart:

The 37 staples across the back of my head were taken out Wednesday. It looks like a long zipper was removed. My scalp is still swollen but having those staples out is a blessing. I also found out Wednesday another rod may need to be added to stabilize the main fracture in left arm. The xray on Wednesday was inconclusive so they’ll re-do xrays on the 12th of January. (I surely am hoping this doesn’t need to take place). There have been a few unexpected complications since the initial fall. It’s been discouraging and wearisome. This is what gave me the idea to change my approach when asked questions…

I actually thought from now on when folks ask me “what happened”…I won’t say I fell backward on ice. I’ll say I walked outside and the sidewalk jumped up, smacked me in the head & gave me a concussion and caused multiple fractures in my left arm. For sure, sidewalks need to learn MANNERS! If they want to occupy our living space they should exercise the same courtesy we all do.  :heart::heart::heart:

PS. Cast goes from below knuckles up to my shoulder and is shaped like an “L”. This makes wearing a sling at all times a necessity.

Ladies

Your replies are the encouragement needed! It’s just past 4:30 AM and I need to be at the hospital by 6 AM for surgery. They’ll keep me at least a couple days. I know the cast will be on for 16 weeks. There’ll also be a long stretch of physical therapy. Not looking forward to that. However, it’s critical in gaining function, mobility and range of motion. I’ll do whatever it takes. I’ll have much surgical hardware in my left arm…already have it in right arm. (Right arm was crushed several years ago) Recovery was long…yet, I DID RECOVER.

You Ladies are the best and I deeply appreciate each one of you. :heart::heart::heart:

Ladies

I’m beyond grateful for all your heartfelt replies. A major bleed started last night on the back of my head where the staples are (NOT inside head). The pain has not subsided… yet. Tomorrow I have appointment with the surgeon. Once the swelling is reduced surgery can be done. However, I now have an upper respiratory infection. This could interfere with the surgery. I’ve felt down about all this. Then again, this happened here in the USA and not overseas! I need much help with everyday things…help has been slow to be set-up due to the holidays. Right now, I wish I could scoop you all up and give you a big hug! Your kind & caring words are a powerful “medicine”. My hope for all of you was that you had a wonderfully joyous Christmas. Again. I want to express my gratitude for your kindness. You Ladies are awesome! :heart::heart::heart:

There are Joy sunglasses that are also readers. I’ve been using them for a few years now. I absolutely love them. They are well made & have the spring hinge on the arms of the glasses. I was able to order them in the strength I needed. Currently, I have 4 pair. They’ve drawn quite a few compliments as they are very stylish. :womanhappy::heart:

That’s an understatement of vast proportions! HSN shouldn’t promise something if they cannot deliver on those promises. There’s a ‘disconnect’ somewhere that needs to be corrected. I want to add that I read the message about the delays that was posted in October, but, this goes way back. :womanmad:

That’s an understatement of vast proportions! HSN shouldn’t promise something if they cannot deliver on those promises. There’s a ‘disconnect’ somewhere that needs to be corrected. I want to add that I read the message about the delays that was posted in October, but, this goes way back. :womanmad:

flyby2

I remember well “Heaven Scent”. The first time I wore it was when I received it as a gift from the young man I was dating (LONG ago). He just loved it. After he got killed in Vietnam, I never wore it again. Memory and scent are connected in a way I cannot describe. Reading your post makes me want to get some of it now. It’s been a long time…and the memories are sweet. Thank you for your post. It caused me to weep, but not due to sadness, but, one of longing & wonder.  :heart:

I had to come back on this thread and tell you what my niece just gave me. It was my old POGO STICK! When she was 9yrs old, I gave it to her as she’d asked for it  I’d gotten it as a gift from my Grandparents when I was in the 6th grade. I loved it then and I love it now. When I first got it, my Grandmother is the one that showed me how to used it properly. Well, since it was my Grandmother that showed me how to use it, I figure I’m not too old to use it…again. It’s not all fancy like the ones they have now. However, it brings back many great memories plus still being able to use it is a real confidence booster.  I found one online like the one I have. VERY rustic in comparison to the versions they have today, yet, I don’t care…it’s fun. :heart::womanvery-happy:

No, not here :womanfrustrated: